lol... the asshole wanted to open his mouth. 

lol... the asshole wanted to open his mouth.

Well now! Allen, the one who can't seem to get it in his head that he is not always right... and that he is not supremely intelligent and correct, wanted to open his mouth and send me an email! And gosh darn it, he can't seem to get it in his head that my blog is my business, and he has nothing to do with it. I am not wrong, Allen. If you don't want to read my blog, then don't. Would you rather I say the exact same thing in a diary or journal? You hypocritical asshole. I have every right to say whatever I want on my blog, and as long as I ask Jess if she's comfortable with it (which I have, in every instance) then I see no problem, seeing as how it is MY and JESS'S business alone, and definately NOT yours. It is also not your place to tell me what I can and can't do or say. Of course, I'm not gonna stop you... because it's your right. I am, however, going to say... well... here.

The following is the email I received from our dear, dear friend, Luigi. (Voldemort, for those of you who don't know)

Be mad at me, i dont' care right now.

So you're not a virgin. you haven't been one for a while now, ok? but it's WRONG to talk about it like that, or to post it on a public forum like that, got it? Fuck, man! and it is NOT because it's her, ok? anyone who does that pisses me off. If jess wrote about it on a blog like that, i'd be upset with her too, got it? It's not just me that thinks its' sleezy for you to be doing this either,
ok?

and yes, i would answer a phone if someone called even if i was with jess. it's called NOT BEING RUDE.

allen


Now this is my response to his email, which I emailed back to him and, obviously, also posted here on the blog.

Oh, I'm so sorry if it's you AND your doctor that think I'm sleazy. You know what? Shove it up your ass, ok? Just because everyone has access to that public forum, does NOT mean everyone is gonna get to that public forum. I've said plenty of times that you, Jess, Justin, and I are the only people who read that blog that even KNOW me or anyone I've ever mentioned. Unless, of course, you're giving the address out to random people, like Veronika for instance. That's bullshit, Allen.
And besides that, it is MY FUCKING BLOG. In other words, FUCK YOU. You're the one that said "Oh, you just don't have the right to ask certain things." And you don't have the right to ask me to censor myself. Besides, once again, that I've asked Jess repeatedly if there's anything she'd like me not to say... sometimes there is, and then I don't say it.
What you think is wrong, I find, is SELDOM actually wrong. You have the most fucked up sense of reality of anyone I know. No one cares, Allen, about my sex life. No one except me... and YOU. What the fuck do you care? No one else does! Sex is NOT something that is shunned by people with normal mentalities, and normal lives. I realize that I'm young, but so fucking what. You said yourself that the average ages to lose your virginity is 14 and 16, and I am still a virgin. YOU are a fucking dumbass, ok? You have the most fucked up definition of "losing your virginity" that I've ever heard. I'm practically having sex with you right now, by your definition! You know why you're definition of virginity is so slim? It's because you want to lose your virginity sooner than you actually would.
Allen, my sex life is MY business. My blog is MY business. If you want to complain about it, go right ahead... because it's your right to voice your opinion. Just be prepared for me to call you a FUCKING DUMBASS every time you do something so STUPID as to tell me what I can and can't say on MY FUCKING BLOG.

Dearest Regards,
Daniel

There you have it. You know, I've made it a habit not to swear on my blog here. I guess that's down the tubes... though I seldom do it when I'm not upset. Allen seems to do it all the time.
I'm not wrong, Allen. It is NOT your place to decide what is right and what is wrong. Don't give me any bullshit about "social acceptance" either. I don't care what you think, ok, Allen? You know how often assumptions about what society accepts are wrong? My point, Allen, is that you are no one to tell me that what I'm doing is wrong. No one sees this blog, Allen, no one (other than you) that thinks it's bad. Unless, like I said before, you're giving out the address... in which case, you need to stop. You'd be showing this site to people you KNOW are going to agree with you... if you think someone is going to side with me, you won't show them the site at all.

I think I'm done. Despite the presence you may get from the blog and the email, I'm actually very happy right now. I'm happy because Jess and my relationship is just as strong as ever. I'm happy because I love Jess, and she loves me. I'm happy because things are good. If you deserve good fortune, you get it. If you don't... then you end up complaining to other people about how they have something you don't.
Actually, I offered to Jess to stop the sexual activity. She disagreed. Enough said, ok?
You don't seem to see that, unless Jess says she doesn't want me to, it's not disrespectful for me to post it. I can't tell you how often I've asked her about stuff like this... and she always says "I don't care, Dane. It honestly wouldn't bother me." If she said it bothered her, I'd stop, and that's that. But because she says it doesn't, I don't see why I can't put it on here. It's not like anyone who matters is gonna read it anyways.
*sigh* I know I'm repeating myself. Supposedly, if you repeat yourself, people will get the message. I've yet to see Allen learn from anything. I've yet to see him realize he's wrong. If he wants to live in his world, then I have no problem about sitting here and saying "Oh darn, if only he WANTED to be helped." He can tell himself that everyone else is crazy all he wants... but it's only because he just doesn't want to be helped.
God, I've been rambling for a while. I guess I'm done now.